Nigerian songstress Simisola Bolatito Kosoko, popularly known as Simi, has advised parents to raise daughters who understand the value of financial independence and self-sufficiency.
In a video she posted on her TikTok account, Simi said: “Please do not raise your daughters to think that when they grow up, all they have to do is rely on someone that they don’t have to take care of themselves.
“When someone is spoiling you, it shouldn’t be because you cannot spoil yourself. As they are spoiling you, you too are spoiling them, and let them know that you’re standing strong.”
The singer spoke about the security that comes with financial independence for women, stressing that independence helps them stay protected.
“There is security in knowing that you have got yourself. A woman’s economic power is in protecting herself fending for herself and being able to confidently acknowledge that she is a complete person. You deserve good things; you need to occupy space,” she stated.
She acknowledged the fact that she was privileged with her upbringing and the support she received from people.
“I admit that I say this from a place of privilege. I grew up among people who believed in me, pushed me and encouraged me. I had chances that took me from here to here but some women had to work with less.”
“Less love, less faith, less kindness and opportunities, and that’s where we as a society have to step in and when you are in a position to give a deserving woman an opportunity, please give it to her,” she said.Compose Message
